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Orgasms Come To Quick For Women
For women who feel that their orgasms end too quickly, you may not be 'riding the wave.' A woman's orgasm comes in a wave of pleasure. If you discontinue stimulation to quickly, you may only feel the first part of the wave. If the stimulation is too intense to continue, simply use your fingers or move your vibrator to a less intense position to continue through the entire orgasm. Also, take a deep breath just as you feel the orgasm to stay relaxed. Often we tense up and stay tense through the climax. Try taking deep, cleansing breathes before, during and after. It will help you to ride the climax through to the end.
Improve Orgasms Through Breathing
Take deep breaths while you're masturbating or sexually active and it will allow for a greater release during orgasm.
Vary Penis Thrusting During Sex
Men, don't mindlessly pump away like a jackhammer from start to finish... mix it up a bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in. Tease and satisfy her longing for you!
Loose Your Senses
When we hear of loss of vision, we often think of someone who has a better sense of smell, taste, touch and hearing because they are no longer depending on that part of the brain to interpret things. Thus, the other sense become increased. Use a blindfold to increase the other senses and make sexual play more interesting!
Finger Her Like A Bowling Ball
Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild. You can also go for double penetration with one of your fingers in her anus!
Share Fantasies & Dreams
Share naughty fantasies and dreams. Ask your partner to say out loud a sentence of their sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing.
Fellatio Gagging
Some people have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Some people use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly isn't by tensing their throat muscles!
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